I've been reading this book I Am Third, by Gale Sayers. It's one of those books that I think is important for all men to read at some point in their life. A book that is almost a religious text.
I get a lot of the books you guys read throughout the year on ebay. I buy what's called "book lots," assortments of books on the cheap. (Yes, I buy these books with my own money. Appreciate.) This came in a "football" lot. I thought a bunch of football books would be a great addition to my library.
I started off kind of slow with this book. It's written in a pretty straightforward style--almost simplistic. I normally don't like books that are so "here it is." I like figurative language and lots of stuff that makes you think.
However, once I got into this thing, it's really affected me as a person. Gale Sayers lived by a mantra, a mantra which should be familiar to you guys as Delbarton students: I AM THIRD. That is, God is first, my friends are second, and I am third. It's a motto the Brian Fleury used to live by, and encouraged everyone around him to live by.
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It seems so simple, almost boy-scouty. But I got to thinking, how much do I put others ahead of myself in my life. Admittedly, I'm a pretty self-absorbed person. When something interferes with my teaching or my coach, it really pisses me off. I have a big ego.
And here was this guy, Gale Sayers, maybe the greatest running back of his time. But he's not some big Terrel Owens kind of guy. He's got a job in the off-season, a great family man, and he just wants to do his best and compete for his team. He doesn't consider himself special, just blessed. When his career is cut short (HE MADE THE HALL OF FAME AFTER 5 YEARS OF PLAYING!), he doesn't blame anyone, he doesn't get angry, he just accepts it.
I think sometimes we make life very complicated. It's not. We make it complicated because we don't have the courage to just do the right thing and hold ourselves accountable when we don't.
It's not often you read a book that affects the way you interact with the world, but that should be your goal. Don't just read for entertainment. Read for enlightenment, read for change, read to become a better person.
This is why they called him "Magic." LEGIT!